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The Daughters Who Carry the Decision

Giving voice to women who carried the end-of-life decision to withdrawal life support for their mothers

What does it mean to live with the decision to withdraw life sustaining therapy for the one who gave you life?

I am currently seeking participants for a confidential doctoral research study exploring the experiences of midlife women who made the decision to withdraw life sustaining therapies for their mothers after a sudden, unexpected life-threatening situation

This research forms part of my Doctorate in Existential Psychotherapy and Counselling and received full ethical approval from Middlesex University and the New School of Psychotherapy and Counselling.

Why this research matters

Many women unexpectedly become responsible for end-of-life decisions for their loved ones. Daughters, in particular, may face the profound task of making life-and-death decisions for their mothers. Yet little research explores the emotional, physical, and existential realities of this experience from their perspective. Although women make up the majority of end-of-life surrogates (Hayes et al., 2015; Wiegand, 2006), the personal impact and deeper meanings of carrying such responsibility remain underexplored.

 This study aims to:

  • Give voice to women’s lived experiences as end-of-life surrogates

  • Explore the emotional, physical, embodied, and relational impacts of making such profound decisions

  • Understand the deeper meanings that may emerge after deciding to end the life of the person who gave them life

Who can participate

This study focuses on the experiences of cisgender daughters and their biological mothers, exploring particular existential and relational dynamics within that relationship.

Due to this specific focus, you may be eligible if:

  • You are a cisgender woman aged 40–65

  • You currently reside in the UK or the US

  • Your mother's health event was sudden, unexpected, and occurred more than one year ago

  • You participated in a family consultation with medical staff where it was agreed to withdraw mechanical ventilation (life support) from your biological mother, after which your mother passed away

  • You are emotionally stable to participate (e.g. have accessed support such as bereavement counselling or pastoral care)

Frequently Asked Questions

How to participate

If you would like to participate in my research study, please complete the confidential form below. Alternatively, you're welcome to contact me directly by email. I respond to all enquiries within 48 hours. I will email you to arrange a convenient time to talk and answer any questions you may have.

All information you provide will be kept private and used only for this study. Only Marcie will have access to your details. By submitting the form, you agree to be contacted by email about the study.

 

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